Monday, July 19, 2010

You are not the guardian angel!

I am sitting at the desk for almost three hours now, thinking over a few things in mind.
1. The current job.
2. Friends and people.
3. My body
4. Things I want to do in life.

Yes. These four things bug me a lot lately.
I find myself so carried away with these things, or at least one of them, so frequently that sometimes I forget there are other things as well that I need to set my mind on. 
I keep on questioning myself, 
Where do I go from now on?
What will become of me in 10 years time if I do not act now?
Where will these things lead me to?

Yet, I haven't got any answer. It is a point blank to me.
Lost. Helpless. For no reason.

I tried reading self-help books, so much I can't even get myself on track.
Basically, I have no idea of anything I should and should not do.

Rethinking of what happened this morning, I think there are certain things that people should really learn.
They should really learn these things:
1. Not to interfere so much in other people's life.
2. Not to invade other's privacy.
3. Not to act like a guardian angel, or saviour of its kind, (for God's sake!)
4. Know how to draw boundaries in certain things, particularly personal life and work.
5. Not to force others. or argue over stupid, lame and boring issues.

The fact is, sometimes people just act the way the are.
'A leopard never changes its spots', or so the proverb says.

In the end, how badly they try to impress people, or act nicely or mending broken, they'll just reveal their stupidity.

One thing for sure, we don't have to argue or debate over things, because finally if somebody wins, the losers will stay with their points. There is no way to change that, though we win it even in court. 
The losers will remain with their points and they still feel they are right no matter what!
So, why argue, or try to prove right from wrong. It is just so dumb.
Let the learning happens naturally, and never disrupt the learning process.
The one with sins, get no happiness but guilt and fear.
Or so I know.


1 comments:

Cherrie said...

I havent got an answer myself and Im already 20. =D But I guess we'll slowly figure it out ^^

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